VA Caregiver Support Program
PGCSS and PCAFC Supports and Benefits
Coping thru Grief and Loss
The Caregiver Support Program (CSP) is committed to ensuring Veteran caregivers are supported in every step of their caregiver journey. As a caregiver, you might experience feelings of grief, such as sadness or loneliness, even before a loved one passes away. This is called anticipatory grief and can bring on a wide range of emotions.
It’s normal to feel sadness, frustration, or even anger, but you are not alone. The first step to healing is recognizing these feelings and finding ways to cope.
Thriving Through Change and Loss Workshop
A 6-week group called Thriving Through Change and Loss that helps caregivers cope with grief and find tools to move forward. This group series that offers a safe and supportive space for caregivers to step back, breathe, and take a moment to explore change, loss, grief and growth. Caregivers are encouraged to take time to experience emotions, reflect on past experiences and allow these things to help them learn what is needed to be able to thrive both now and in the future.As human beings we face change and loss throughout our lives. When you find yourself in a caregiving role for a loved one it can feel like changes start coming at you faster than you can absorb, and the losses connected to those changes begin to pile up. This group is meant to be a safe and supportive space where you can step back, breath and take a moment to process all that you have been experiencing. With loss comes grief and to process grief we must take time to experience our emotions, reflect on what we’ve been through and allow it to help us learn what we need to be able to thrive both now and in the future.
Open to Caregivers enrolled in either VA Caregiver Support Program.
Ways to Cope with Anticipatory Grief:
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- Take Care of Yourself: Make time for activities that bring you joy, help you relax, and give you rest. Caregiver Health and Wellbeing Coaching, empowers caregivers by helping them focus on their own health and wellbeing.
- Lean on Friends and Family: Reach out to loved ones for emotional support and practical help. We also encourage you to take breaks and rest when needed through our respite care offerings.
- Find Support: Connect with other caregivers who understand what you're going through. Programs like Caregiver Peer Support Mentoring and Building Better Caregivers can help.
- Talk to a CSP staff member: CSP offers self-care courses for caregivers on topics like grief, resilience, and self-care.
- Express Your Feelings: Journaling or art journaling can help you process emotions. Ask about CSP’s Art Journaling initiative to learn more.
- Experiencing Grief or Loss - https://www.va.gov/REACH/challenge/experiencing-grief-or-loss/
Services and Support:
Plan Ahead: Help the Veteran you care for create or update their advance care plan by visiting VA's (Advance Care Planning & Making Decisions page. There you can find all the forms and guidance.
Need Help?
Call VA’s Caregiver Support Line (CSL) at 1-855-260-3274 to learn more about the support that is available to you, and for assistance connecting with the Caregiver Support Team, at your local VA Medical Center.
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